Randolphe Tanoguem

Joined February 2025

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Loving thy self responsibility
Loving thy self responsibility is not a phrase I grew up believing. It sounded romantic. Decorative. Almost soft. But what I was living inside was not soft.
By Randolphe Tanoguem7 days ago in Humans
An Attractive Man
An Attractive Man. I used to believe he was built from charm, humor, body, and status. I studied those traits like scripture.
By Randolphe Tanoguem10 days ago in Confessions
How Most Men Kill Desire
You didn’t notice when it happened. Not at first. Not the moment she stopped reaching for you. Not the moment her softness turned brittle. Not the moment her desire recoiled like a breath held too long.
By Randolphe Tanoguem27 days ago in Confessions
The moment you truly like yourself
The moment you truly like yourself is not the moment you feel better. It’s the moment something stops asking for permission inside you. I didn’t reach it through insight or courage. I reached it through fracture. Through realizing that fear wasn’t the problem—it was the symptom of a distance I kept maintaining from myself.
By Randolphe Tanoguem27 days ago in Humans
Fear of Being Average
The fear of being average doesn’t show up as fear. It shows up as silence. You don’t feel it scream. You feel it settle.
By Randolphe Tanoguem29 days ago in Humans
Appearance Psychology
You don’t get to choose when it starts. The first time it happens, you're too young to name it — just old enough to feel it.
By Randolphe Tanoguemabout a month ago in Humans
Control
I’ve never feared chaos. I feared control that I couldn’t see. Because once you name the monster, you can move around it.
By Randolphe Tanoguemabout a month ago in Humans
The Worst Case Is Disappointment, Not Death
You tell yourself you’re just being careful. That your body is protecting you. That the nerves mean something important is at stake.
By Randolphe Tanoguemabout a month ago in Confessions
The Difference Between Fantasizing and Visualizing
You’ve felt it — that sharp pang of disappointment when your dreams feel vivid and alive in your mind, but your real life stubbornly refuses to change.
By Randolphe Tanoguemabout a month ago in Motivation
Enjoy Life While Suffering
Suffering is a fixed cost of life. It’s guaranteed. No opt‑out button. No exemption clause. No spiritual bypass that makes it disappear.
By Randolphe Tanoguem2 months ago in Motivation
Your Imagination Is God
I was raised to believe in a God outside of me. A distant force in the sky. Watching. Judging. Dishing out blessings - or silence.
By Randolphe Tanoguem2 months ago in Motivation
What Women’s Clothing Says About Seduction
I used to think rejection meant something was wrong with me. I replayed conversations in my head. Tweaked my tone. Worked on confidence.
By Randolphe Tanoguem2 months ago in Humans