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He was 3,000 miles away these signs told me he wanted to marry me
He was 3,000 miles away these signs told me he wanted to marry me The video call froze on his face. Not on a grand declaration or a romantic moment just him, mid-sentence, talking about his lease renewal. "I told them I might need a two-bedroom," he said. "You know. For when you visit. Or if you ever..."
By Understandshe.com5 days ago in Families
5 mistakes that push him away when trying to get your ex back using psychology
we please just talk?" You saw the read receipt. Then nothing. Three days later he posted a photo with friends, smiling. You had pushed him further away without even realizing it. This is what happens when you try to get your ex back using psychology without understanding what actually works.
By Understandshe.com6 days ago in Journal
what are the four things that hurt men the most
We had that fight. I said something I knew would land, and it did he just stopped talking. Walked into the other room. Didn't slam anything, just went quiet. And I sat there wondering if he was actually hurt or if men just process things differently, if what are the four things that hurt men the most even applies to someone who can go that silent.
By Understandshe.com10 days ago in Journal
The 777 rules for couples: The kitchen chair
my husband walked past me in the kitchen. Didn't say anything. Just... walked past. Like I was a chair. I looked down at my phone. We'd been in the same house for 4 hours. The only words exchanged? "Did you pay the electricity bill?" and "There's no milk."
By Understandshe.com20 days ago in Journal
The 777 Rules For Marriage: The 2 AM Reddit Thread That Saved My Life
Last Tuesday, my husband looked at me across the kitchen table and said, "I don't know if I love you anymore." Not screaming. Not angry. Just... tired. Like he'd been carrying something heavy for too long and finally put it down.
By Understandshe.com20 days ago in Families
The 777 Rule for Healthy Marriages Why Every Couple Needs
My husband set a reminder on his phone. Tuesday, 7 PM: "Date night." I wanted to throw the phone at him. We'd been married eight years. Two kids. A mortgage that made me nauseous every month. And now my husband was treating me like a dentist appointment? Something to schedule, check off, forget?
By Understandshe.com24 days ago in Families
The 777 Rules For Couples: Why We Were Roommates With Wedding Rings For 3 Years
Last Tuesday, Raj passed me the salt at dinner. That was our conversation. Salt. No eye contact. Just... mechanical. I sat there thinking - when did we become this? Two people sharing a house, a bed, a Netflix password, but not a life. We used to talk until 3 AM. Now we schedule "check-ins" like business meetings.
By Understandshe.com24 days ago in Families
How to Win Your Ex Girlfriend Back Through Text: My 147-Draft Disaster & What Actually Worked
I spent three days writing it. Three days of staring at my phone. Typing. Deleting. Typing again. Changing "love" to "care about" because that felt less scary. Then changing it back because it felt dishonest.
By Understandshe.com26 days ago in Families
10 Clear Signs Your ex is not over you Psychology
It was a Tuesday. I remember because Tuesdays are garbage days in my building and I was already late for work. My phone buzzed. Instagram notification. From him. Not a message - those stopped six months ago. A story. I shouldn't have looked. I know better. But I looked.
By Understandshe.com27 days ago in Families
How to make your angry boyfriend happy over text
My phone literally feels heavier in my hand. That's the first thing. Or maybe it’s just the silence, the dead weight of no notifications, no little pings or vibrations. Just nothing. It’s this weird, awful limbo where you're still connected you know he’s right there, on the other end of this little glass screen but you feel completely, totally alone.
By Understandshe.com2 months ago in Families
