Wilson Igbasi
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Hi, I'm Wilson Igbasi — a passionate writer, researcher, and tech enthusiast. I love exploring topics at the intersection of technology, personal growth, and spirituality.
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The Extrovert Façade: When Career Ambition Collides with Introverted Authenticity.
For years, I’d been a quiet cog in the well-oiled machine of my company. A diligent worker, I consistently delivered results, excelling in tasks that required deep focus and meticulous attention to detail. My performance reviews were always positive, highlighting my productivity and problem-solving abilities. However, they often included a familiar refrain: “Needs to be more vocal in meetings” and “Should network more proactively.”
By Wilson Igbasi18 days ago in Humans
The Unspoken Grief of a 'Friendship Breakup' in Your 30s:
Friendships, they say, are the family we choose. They’re the lifelines that pull us through the rough patches, the cheerleaders celebrating our victories, and the shoulders we lean on when life throws us curveballs. But what happens when that chosen family unravels? While romantic relationships are often granted a public forum for grief and processing, the ending of a significant friendship, particularly in your 30s, is often a silent, unacknowledged loss. It's a 'friendship breakup,' and the pain can be surprisingly profound.
By Wilson Igbasi18 days ago in Humans
The 5-9 Grind: Why the "Hustle Before Dawn" Left Me Burned Out and Bitter.
The internet is awash with productivity gurus peddling the same, seductive promise: unlock your potential by maximizing every single waking moment. And one of the most persistent mantras in this relentless pursuit of optimization is the "5-9 before the 9-5." The premise is simple: wake up before the sun, dedicate those early hours to your side hustle, passion project, or self-improvement goals, and magically transform into a productivity powerhouse.
By Wilson Igbasi18 days ago in Humans
The Unconventional Key to "Happily Ever After":
For decades, the image of a successful marriage has been painted in a very specific, almost rigid, way: two people living under one roof, sharing everything from meals to bank accounts, navigating life as a single unit. But what if that image doesn't fit everyone? What if the very thing that’s *supposed* to bring you closer actually suffocates the individual identities that brought you together in the first place?
By Wilson Igbasi18 days ago in Humans
From Scorned Scavenger to Culinary King:
For centuries, the humble lobster occupied a place far removed from the white tablecloths and extravagant seafood platters it now graces. It was considered a bottom-feeding scavenger, a protein source fit only for the poor, indentured servants, and even…prisoners. Its transformation from societal reject to the ultimate culinary indulgence is a testament to the power of effective marketing, a fascinating socio-economic journey fueled by ingenuity, perception shifts, and a healthy dose of chance.
By Wilson Igbasi21 days ago in Families
Why I'm Choosing to Be 'Child-Free,' Not 'Childless:' A Semantic Difference Packed with Meaning and Debate.
For years, the language surrounding parenthood, or the lack thereof, has been subtly, and sometimes not-so-subtly, judgmental. The term "childless" hung in the air like a quiet accusation, a whispered lament suggesting something was missing, something vital, something wrong. It implied a state of deprivation, a gaping hole in a life presumably meant to be filled with tiny humans.
By Wilson Igbasi22 days ago in Journal
The Transient Tourist: How Digital Nomads are Hollowing Out City Souls.
The allure is undeniable. Sun-drenched beaches by day, cutting-edge coding projects by night. Exploring ancient ruins on a lunch break, networking in trendy cafes after work. The digital nomad lifestyle, promising freedom, flexibility, and endless adventure, has exploded in popularity. Instagram feeds are awash with images of smiling faces posed against exotic backdrops, laptops perched precariously on hammock edges, and vibrant cityscapes beckoning the curious. But beneath the carefully curated surface lies a growing concern: are these transient travelers enriching the cities they inhabit, or are they inadvertently contributing to their erosion?
By Wilson Igbasi22 days ago in Humans
The Uncomfortable Truth About 'Trauma Bonding' on Social Media:
We live in an age of radical transparency, or at least, the appearance of it. Social media platforms, initially designed to connect us, have become stages for curated lives, highlight reels, and, increasingly, public displays of vulnerability. While genuine connection and support can blossom online, a darker side is emerging: a phenomenon some are calling "trauma bonding" in the digital sphere, raising uncomfortable questions about the way we overshare and connect.
By Wilson Igbasi22 days ago in Humans
Beyond the Perfect Post: Finding Myself in a Secret "Finsta"
For years, my Instagram feed was a carefully curated highlight reel of my life. Sun-drenched family vacations, perfectly plated meals, beaming smiles from school plays – a portrait of domestic bliss painted with the filters of Valencia and Clarendon. It was a life I loved, undoubtedly, but one that increasingly felt… prescribed. I was playing a role, a series of roles really: the loving wife, the attentive mother, the diligent employee. But where was me in all of this?
By Wilson Igbasi22 days ago in Humans
The Invisible Wage Gap: How Tracking My 'Invisible Labor' Costs Revealed a Startling Truth
For years, I, like many others, have felt the nagging sensation of being nickel-and-dimed by the seemingly endless tasks that keep a household running smoothly. It's not the big-ticket items – the mortgage or car payments – but the constant drip, drip, drip of expenses related to managing everything else. We're talking about the last-minute grocery runs for forgotten ingredients, the emergency dry cleaning for a presentation, the unexpected cost of replacing a burnt-out lightbulb, the spontaneous ordering of kid's school supplies.
By Wilson Igbasi22 days ago in Humans
The 'Soft Life' is a Lie for Most of Us. Let's Talk About the 'Sturdy Life' Instead.
The internet is awash with aspirational lifestyles. Among them, the "soft life" has emerged as a dominant force, promising a world of ease, luxury, and minimal effort. Influencers showcase meticulously curated moments of relaxation, highlighting spa days, exotic vacations, and gourmet meals, all seemingly effortlessly achieved. While the appeal is undeniable, the reality is that the "soft life" is a fantasy for the vast majority of us. Chasing this elusive ideal can lead to feelings of inadequacy, pressure, and a profound disconnect from the realities of everyday life. Instead of striving for the unattainable, perhaps it’s time to embrace a more relatable and sustainable concept: the "sturdy life."
By Wilson Igbasi22 days ago in Humans
