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Of Porn and Shame
Millions of people around the world use porn, that is an established fact [1], and I don't see a problem with it per se. However, what is disturbing, and you don't need to be on the internet long to realise it, is that most porn in no way reflects the type of sexual scenarios the average of these millions of people is going to experience.
By Boxy Wilde9 years ago in Filthy
How To Say "I'm Horny" To Your Partner
If you're a woman, you're on the right side of the article. If you're a man then keep strolling. Everyone in their life, has had a feeling of wanting to feel satisfied in different ways. But what if one isn't comfortable with coming to their partner about it. Well it's not like some sort of schedule for sex. But there are fun ways to bring the subject up to a partner. No one should feel scared; like they're doing something wrong simply because everyone is human for one. As far as I'm concerned everyone has hormones.
By Ayana .9 years ago in Filthy
Best MMF Threesome Sex Positions
Threesomes are fun, and part of the fun they offer is in variety. There are tons of different ways threesomes can happen, and even more ways to get it on.
By Mackenzie Z. Kennedy9 years ago in Filthy
Women's Sexuality: A Constant Criticism
For years, I have grown with boys who are now men, who have proudly worn their sexuality on their backs like a rucksack. Times are changing and women want to do this too. I know I certainly do and would, why are we so squeamish when it comes to women talking about sex?
By Maisie Hancox9 years ago in Filthy
Best Sex Positions for Fuller Figures
As a curvy woman like myself, I know what it's like to be in the middle of a romp, twisted in a position that I know has to be unflattering. Now, bless my lucky stars that my husband thinks I am perfect the way I am (physically, definitely not mentally) and no matter which way he contorts my size 12 body, he swears it's the sexiest thing on the planet. His words not mine, people.
By Jus L'amore9 years ago in Filthy
Sex Tips for Older Virgins
Being a virgin is strange in our society. If you're a virgin as a teenager, people applaud you for it. If you're a virgin for too long, people start acting concerned. Even if you are a virgin and happy to do it, people will often stigmatize virginity after a certain age.
By Mackenzie Z. Kennedy9 years ago in Filthy
Science Encourages Women to Go Bra Free
Science has had women believe for centuries that a bra is a necessary component of our everyday wardrobes and that free breasts are offensive—yeah right! Some of the biggest stars like Rihanna, Kendall Jenner, and Selena Gomez have been spotted braless, encouraging a new trend to ditch the bra. Not that it is solely about trendsetting, but studies also reveal that the once useful and ladylike accessory may be a thing of the past! Taking the plunge (see what I did there...) to braless prosperity may be difficult, but there are always alternatives.
By Shaunna Nelson9 years ago in Filthy
Why Does the Sex Have to Dwindle??
Imagine this, you've been with someone over five years. You are still being intimate but only a few times a week at best. It's frustrating!
By Bre Meli9 years ago in Filthy
How to Keep Your Relationship Alive
It can be hard to stay interested in certain conversations for longer than 5 minutes, so how does one stay interested in their significant other for 50 years?
By Beth Gibbons9 years ago in Filthy
The Bullet or The Egg
The main issue for a woman cumming every time is that you need to get on top, cowgirl style, and get your clitoris pumped. One fast easy way is using a bullet or egg vibrator during sex.
By JUDITH D9 years ago in Filthy
Posing Nude
I am a large woman and as many of my friends and enemies know I am a rather frequent nudist. Now nudity isn't something all large women and men are particularly comfortable with. The majority of nudes we see in our society are in movies, porn or artist photographs; the bulk of these feature thin people frequently with medical enhancements. Doesn't make us thick-inclined types so sure anyone wants to see us naked and instills an internalized fear of our own nude bodies.
By Sarah Sparks9 years ago in Filthy
Sexiest Foreplay Tips
Like any good appetizer before a meal, foreplay is often neglected, underutilized, or, at worst, dismissed – but some foreplay can really make your nights hot and heavy.
By Bethany Tiamat9 years ago in Filthy