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How To Fix a Dead Bedroom
Most of us would never knowingly commit to a romantic relationship which had absolutely no sex going on whatsoever. In fact, it's one of the most common fears men have when they're walking down the aisle. Though no one would ever knowingly go into a relationship that would result in a dead bedroom, it still happens quite frequently.
By Skunk Uzeki9 years ago in Filthy
Attraction isn't a Choice
I’m sure at some stage we’ve all asked the question of a potential suitor - “so what do you look for in a guy/girl?” The more I think about it, the more this seems like a pointless question. The answer is usually a generic response of niceties like someone who’s fun, caring, affectionate, loyal, honest, blah, blah, blah. We’d all agree that these are traits that we’d probably want in a partner, but trying to provide a logical answer based on a list of adjectives for something as seemingly illogical as attraction is rudimentary at best.
By Madison James9 years ago in Filthy
Insanely Powerful Vibrators That Look Nothing Like Vibrators
Everyone masturbates. This is just a fact that we all have to accept. If you're like most other women out there, you probably have a vibrator to help you cross the finish line. Unfortunately, vibrators can be pretty embarrassing if they're discovered by someone.
By Mackenzie Z. Kennedy9 years ago in Filthy
Pussy Control
Guys, we love it. We crave it. We want it as bad as we can want things (speaking to hetero males, of course). The problem is that we don’t know a damn thing about it and most of us don’t seem to be in a hurry to learn. That’s no way to run a ship, gentlemen. Could you tell me which sensory area most women focus on while masturbating (Stop giggling, idiots. This is serious.) Can you tell me what this means about how much the size of your cock matters? Would you know the Graftenberg Spot and whether you get it out by presoaking or using Oxi-Clean? I’ll bet you didn’t even know that there is another spot. If you want to please your lady, you need to learn at least a bit about these kinds of things and stop fumbling the fuck around down there.
By Mickey Finn9 years ago in Filthy
3 Things That Before-Sex Glow Teaches You About Loving Your Body
Preparing for sex is more than just working on your external appearance. The process truly does begin from within. That before-sex glow can be the ultimate confidence booster and is just as important as the satisfaction you receive after. How? Check out these top three things that glow can do for you:
By Paige Vahla9 years ago in Filthy
Sex Positions That Use All Five Senses
Our world—be it our day-to-day conversations or sexual exploits under the covers—is a product of the five senses. So often, the sexual world remains restricted to tactile sensations. We long to touch and be touched, but so often we forget our bodies are host to a number of other senses. The masterful lover learns that, in order to fully satisfy his or her partner's needs, he or she needs to explore more creative methods to bring his or her partner to orgasm. The following sex techniques will explore ways we can utilize every one of our five senses to bring our greatest sexual fantasies to blazing life.
By Bethany Tiamat9 years ago in Filthy
8 Places to Have Sex Outside the Bedroom
There are times when conventional run of the mill bedroom sex doesn’t quite put the fizz in your soda, just like the British couple who went viral this week, after CCTV footage showed the randy pair getting hot and heavy at the counter in their local Dominos. Turns out they were hungry for more than just their 12 inch Pepperoni Passion pizza. Sometimes the jokes just write themselves. If you’re feeling adventurous, but maybe want to make sure that you don’t get arrested, here is a little help, with the pros and cons of having sex outside the bedroom.
By Katya Krakowska9 years ago in Filthy
How To Have A Threesome
Is Manage a Trois Pour Moi? Although it just so happens to be a generic male fantasy, the threesome is not limited to males alone. Now more than ever, all genders are more willing to embrace the taboo and jump aboard the ship of sexual (re)discovery. We can probably thank Fifty Shades for that one. Anyway, before you start putting together a list of possible partners, you first have to ask yourself if a threesome is really your thing?
By Katya Krakowska9 years ago in Filthy
What Is a Multiple Orgasm?
There often, as a woman, seems to be an unconscious rejection of the possibility of having more than one orgasm. If men can only have one, perhaps it seems greedy, aggressive, or challenging to want more when with a man. That was a very 20th century perspective uncovered in the informative Hite Report by Shere Hite. Perhaps a woman who does desire more, is "unnatural" or a "nymphomaniac." More Mad Men era hyperbole started by men who probably didn't want to work too hard.
By Alicia Springer9 years ago in Filthy
New Dating App, Luvidya, Celebrates Official Launch This Valentine’s Day
SAN FRANCISCO, CALIFORNIA—Digital technology and smartphones have definitely changed the way we date and establish romantic relationships in the 21st century. While popular dating websites and apps offer convenience, finding that special someone hasn’t necessarily gotten easier. Lucie Ebnerova, the founder of Luvidya, Inc., definitely knows this first hand.
By Nikki Gaskins Campbell9 years ago in Filthy
