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Do Body Stereotypes Define Sexuality?
I'll bet you've spent a lot of time looking at women's bodies, and will continue to do so. Every woman has a unique personality, but some personalities have been found to correlate to aspects of the body. Stereotyping is generally a bad idea, but it is best to understand the perception of stereotypes if we are ever to eliminate them.
By Lizzie Boudoir9 years ago in Filthy
How to Get Close to Rich People
Think about it. Everybody you know wants more money. Endless series of books have been hacked out explaining foolproof systems on how to pile up more of the green stuff. Of course, after reading all the experts, it always comes down to an awful lot of hard work. And many of us are very lazy, so there's the rub. People who have made their own fortunes will tell you it was mostly by the sweat of their brows. The truth is that the vast majority of all people of wealth were born with it … married it … or got so close to it that it rubbed off. Aha, you say something like that should only happen to me. Well, it can. The simple, super dependable, flawless system described below is infallible.
By Frank White9 years ago in Filthy
Rough Sex - The Right Way
I’m one of those girls that has absolutely no problem admitting she likes being choked during sex. Actually, I don’t need to admit it, because there are close to 500 movies of me, on pretty much every porn website known to man, that proves my point. Rough sex, and in particular rough sex in porn, gets a bad name. It is the kind of thing that those who don’t like or understand it believe it is abusive, destructive and non-concensual. The problem with the kind of black eye and nose bleed sex that I (and so many others) enjoy, is that it can be those things if its not done correctly. So here is your guide to rough and tumble love, from deep in the vaults of my sexually devious brain.
By Samantha Bentley9 years ago in Filthy
Why Every Woman Wants an Alpha Male
I never put much thought into what being an alpha male consists of. Honestly, it wasn’t until I became addicted to my kindle and started reading hundreds upon hundreds of erotic and romance novels that I really began to appreciate and understand this hot ass, in charge, take no prisoners type of man. When I used to fantasize about a man it would usually involve some baby-faced asshole with a lot of tattoos and a shitty attitude, but now, as I have gotten older, that imaginary arrogant dick wad is no longer able to dampen my panties. What turns me on these days is a confident, hard working, respectable, and stable man (who of course is still colorfully tatted and a filthy bedroom talker, duh).
By Jus L'amore9 years ago in Filthy
How to Use a Double Sided Dildo
Double. Sided. Dildo… Now that I have your attention, or at least part of it, how about having a discussion surrounding the ins and the outs of how to use a double sided dildo, and perhaps answer some of the other notable questions that have been asked in reference to how to use a double sided dildo. One would probably be remiss if they did not warn the reader that the content of this article is sometimes thought taboo; however, after reading the first three words, and making it to this disclaimer it should be obvious that we are about to embark on a conversation that delves into a deeply sexual discussion. In other words, we are going to discuss having sexual intercourse while utilizing a sex toy, as well as masturbation utilizing a sex toy.
By Lizzie Boudoir9 years ago in Filthy
Casual Sex Etiquette
Enter the “friend with benefits” or “casual sex buddy,” era. As the name suggests, this is a friend or acquaintance with whom you occasionally have casual sex. Bearing in mind casual sex etiquette can go a long way to maintaining the nature of a casual relationship.
By Lenny Legman9 years ago in Filthy
Sex and Relationship Podcasts That Should be on Your Radar
Odds are, you probably didn’t have the best sex education. It’s more likely that you fidgeted through a couple health classes over the years where the most you could hope for were a few pieces of vaguely detailed info on how to use a condom and successfully avoid STIs. And sure, your parents might have explained things to you once or twice, but let’s be honest, that was probably so traumatic that you just blocked it out. Aside from these imperfect introductions into the world of sex and relationships, most of us have had to muddle through to the best of our ability, picking things up from movies, TV, the Internet, friends, dirty books covertly checked out from the library, and, of course, our own fumbling first experiences. But even with all of the information out there, it can be hard to find truly helpful advice, relatable storytelling, and fresh perspectives on the timeless questions of love, romance, sex, relationships, hookups, breakups, and everything in-between. Have no fear, though, because the following podcasts offer the perfect antidote to all the complications, contradictions, and misinformation you've most likely picked up along the way. I promise that your confused, hormonal 9th grade self will thank you.
By Alysha DePerna9 years ago in Filthy
Things to Know When Going to a Sex Party
If you are thinking of going to your first swinger party, you're bound to be feeling a wide range of emotions. What should I wear? What happens when I get there? Are they even legal? This article looks at things to know when going to a sex party and helps bust some myths about the mysterious world of the sex club. Sex parties, also known by a variety of other terms such as play parties, swinger parties, and lifestyle parties, are organized sex get-togethers where consenting, paying party-goers engage in sex with other consenting, paying party-goers. Simple, right? We bet you still have a list of things to know before going to a sex party. So here goes.
By Lizzie Boudoir9 years ago in Filthy
Sexiest Halloween Costumes
Halloween is my favourite time of year. Maybe it’s because I’m a die hard goth and I dress like I’m going to a funeral all year round, or maybe it’s because it’s acceptable to decorate your house with skulls and grave stones for this one special day. When I was a kid my street was the perfect middle class, central London trick or treaters heaven. Huge Victorian houses with a pumpkin at every door. One year my brothers and our friends dressed as Slipknot, there was a huge argument over who got to be Joey Jordison and ultimately ended with my mother saying "you can ALL be Joey.” She didn’t understand.
By Samantha Bentley9 years ago in Filthy
Things to Do Instead of Cheating on Your Partner
The urge to cheat in a relationship can happen to anyone, whether they're in a healthy relationship or a faulty one. If one of you is cheating or you have the urge to cheat and you're worried your relationship is heading for the rocks, it might be time to rethink the person you're with. However, if you cherish your relationship, there are some things to do instead of cheating on your partner.
By Alicia Springer9 years ago in Filthy
Michael Myers Syndrome
Show of hands--and be honest...you ever wanted to kill somebody just because you'd been going through an extended dry spell without sex? I don't mean this as a tongue-in-cheek sort of query. I mean it as, have you ever felt a sincerely disturbing urge to go nuts on somebody simply out of sexual frustration?
By Matt Cates9 years ago in Filthy
