advice
Find advice on relationships, sex, what to buy, how to try new fetishes, how to interpret fantasies, and more.
#SexHairDon'tCare
You're like me, you actually LIKE having sex with your husband. Yeah? The passion is still there, the fire is there, you love each other, you're happily married, etc. Except, maybe sex has become a smidgen.. shall we say, boring? Mundane? Just the same, time after time? Every time it's the same thing. The same position, the same process. You need something new; you need some way to spice up your sex life. You both feel it, hell, maybe you have even talked about it, but HOW? What do you do to practically get things more exciting in the bedroom?
By Mindy Best5 years ago in Filthy
How to Cope with Different Libidos
Differences in desire are completely normal, but this doesn’t mean they’re a walk in the park. As a sex therapist, I talk with a lot of people about how to cope with different libidos. The key is to deal with it early on and find ways of synching up. Here’s how you do just that.
By Leigh Norén5 years ago in Filthy
The Superpowers & Villains of ADHD Sex
Just seeing the word sex can curve your lips up into a smile. There’s hot sex, freaky sex, casual sex, makeup sex, routine sex, angry sex, etc. But the best sex is when minds and bodies connect in rapture - the point of no return - when sex evolves into intimacy. The carnal knowledge combined with a spiritual reckoning and presence of mind.
By Musing Around5 years ago in Filthy
Here's One Way To Get A Little Naked Back In The Relationship.
Monogamy isn't in our nature. We often think we can do it, but truthfully it's not something humans are conditioned naturally to live with. Sure, there are some that spend a lifetime with one partner. Some, even manage to do it happily. For many people, they're going to be plagued by thoughts of other people. They'll settle for one but when they're together, especially in bed, their minds wander to the "highlight reel" because the same old thing has become boring. Couples get stagnant and stop enjoying life, stop being with each other because they want to, and are only there out of a sense of obligation. So, how do you deal with a monogamous life and still have that youthful energy that brought you together? By enjoying the things you weren't supposed to do when you were young. Remember, you're not dead, yet!
By Jason Ray Morton 5 years ago in Filthy
Can you help bring out my inner sadist?
All too often in helping relationships, what needs to be said is what one person does not want to say, and the other does not want to hear. Also, people’s explicit notions only convey a part of their mental processes. What goes without saying generally goes unsaid. This is why researchers and MCs do not content themselves with asking various people about their conceptions of life and living but also observe how the consequences of a group member or action trigger particular behaviors. Advising this comes down to the experience of identifying the expressive cues presented and those that are never expressed and held back. What you read here is my best approximation of the energy, feel, and questions that are asked and unsaid. This question of how to be a better sexual or sensual sadist is common for those engaged in BDSM and those who dabble in some of it’s sensual arts. There is no one correct way to embody or behave. What follows is how the narrative and question resonated with me. Would you have answered it differently?
By Joseph Crown5 years ago in Filthy
7 Tips to Improve Your Sexy Banter
Want to stimulate the biggest sex organ for anyone? You need to get their brain aroused! While many of us rely on visual stimuli to turn on our partners, learning to talk sexy to them can up our foreplay game, improve communication, and ultimately result in better sex.
By Auntie Vice5 years ago in Filthy
