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This Just In: What They Don't tell You About Friends With Benefits...
Let me tell you something right now... YOU. ARE. GOING. TO. FALL. Period. You're going to lie to yourself and lie to your fwb partner, telling yourself you're down for what it is. You'll tell yourself you understand the terms. You'll beat yourself over the head with "we both can do whatever we want because we're not together."
By the kitchen sink. 5 years ago in Filthy
Making Love vs Having Sex
Are making love and having sex the same thing? For many people, having sex and making love is the same thing. Broadly speaking, it could be said that these two activities are similar, as they both imply an intimate physical connection between two partners. However, saying that these two acts are identical would be a huge mistake, because if you take a closer look at how they take place and what their purpose is, it becomes clear that they are different. Sex relates more to an animalic desire, typically not involving emotions, the aims to satisfy body needs. On the other hand, lovemaking is an expression of love accompanied by an explosion of emotions preserved even after the intercourse. It goes beyond physical intimacy, connecting also the souls and minds of both partners.
By Rick Vermunt6 years ago in Filthy
How to Help When Your Partner Is Having Difficulty Orgasming
Difficulty orgasming can be tough on both parties in a relationship or marriage. What may start out as a seemingly individual issue, can quickly turn into a relationship one, leaving both partners feeling like they’re falling short.
By Leigh Norén6 years ago in Filthy
Masturbation IS Self-Care
Masturbation IS Self-Care I knew of my vulva's existence at a very young age. Its discovery sadly came to me through toxic masculinity and sexual trauma. My experiences with it created a cloud of shame and discomfort that I always felt to be my fault because I had no way of knowing otherwise.
By Asia, The Colorful Writer6 years ago in Filthy
An Argument For Anal
You might view this article as opinionated, satirical, or a well-researched piece on historical facts that back up my stance on a certain hot button issue. What it isn't, is me trying to sway you one way or another. I have come to learn that people are going to do what they are going to do on their path through life as they evolve and learn right from wrong. Though I am pro-life except in extreme circumstances, I respect your right to make the choices you do no matter how misguided or immoral I may find them. The beauty of this great big beautiful pile of dirt that we all ride on while it hurtles through space is just that; it's huge and I don't have to associate with you if I don't want to. There's plenty of room for everyone to go about their day and never meet someone again if we so choose.
By Jeremy Hanson6 years ago in Filthy
Pussy Target: Banger Tart with a Dart
It's good to own a dart. It's better when you know what to do with it. It's best when you know what to do with it, and have the skill to slap that shaft exactly where it needs to go. Let's not Diddle for the Middle. We want a Bulls-Eye or at least a Bag O' Nuts. We look tenderly at our dart-girl. We see Two Fat Ladies- 88 points, just waiting to be enjoyed! The main objective for beginners is to keep the darts on the Island, the playable part of the girl. The most attractive dart does no one any good, bouncing off into the ocean. (If you don't know dart-player slang, Google it.)
By Roscoe Forthright6 years ago in Filthy
B.D.S.M
I love it and I need it and I want it too much. I don’t show it too much because I feel like people would judge me that I am crazy like a pornstar. or many things like that. I don’t know what it’s just me you know. I love it but trust me, it’s the most annoying feeling. to me, it’s the feeling of knowing something inside your head and you just have to dream it in your head. my head is full or sexual shit. I love my pansexual self and I am proud to be a pansexual transgender woman of color. I love it because it’s the vibe that makes me feel comfortable and making eyes feeling comfortable would be the feeling that I would be best at. I know that when it comes to my heart knowing that it’s okay to be who you are while for some people, it’s not, Let me tell you, it’s okay. I love that for everyone. Everyone is different.
By Jade Penelope6 years ago in Filthy
Black shirt red blouse bhabhi
Black shirt red blouse bhabhi I fell in love with Billu Rani, my neighbor. Bilu was so beautiful, her big boobed red lips. Long long hair. Eyes so sexy, she just doesn't mind living without her, so Billu Rani was in my house She comes home and asks me to borrow some money. I gave her money and kept looking at her. She also looked at me, then I kissed her. Her lust stopped. She also kissed me. I took off all her clothes. And took off all my clothes too. Then got up and took him to bed. He started kissing him. Then he started massaging him with oil.
By jitubanna16 years ago in Filthy
Improving Your Sexual Health
There is no problem great or small that cannot be addressed when trying to improve your sexual well-being. Sex and sexual intimacy likely bring about a myriad of emotions for you, some of them likely good as well as some of them being bad. The definition of sex changes from person to person, and with it so does the emotion surrounding sex. However, the human sexual response is complex and, at times, difficult to understand. There is no shame in wanting to improve your sexual health, whether it is by fixing it emotionally, mentally, or physically. Your understanding of your own personal self as well as understanding your relationship with a sexual partner are important pieces in the great puzzle of developing and maintaining control over your sexual health.
By Dennis McKonkie6 years ago in Filthy
