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Dating, married, single, divorced, and more. Advice on the relationships you have in life. Dear, Humans..
3 Keys to Any Relationship
John Lennon said that "all you need is love." Love can make any relationship work. Many people have taken this idea to heart and done crazy things in the name of love. It doesn't always work well. How do we know if it's real love? We can end up in bad or abusive situations if this is the principle we are following. Trent Reznor acknowledges that sometimes love is not enough. So if love is not the most important building block of a relationship then what is?
By Teela Hudak7 years ago in Humans
The True Story of the Fierce Independent
There are those in this world who use the word independent to describe themselves. In society, in careers, and personal life, it is one of the most cherished character traits that so many aspire to have. It can be great, and that’s without a doubt, knowing that you can do anything on your own can bring a presence that others take notice of.
By Keane Neal-Riquier7 years ago in Humans
Tips for a Healthy Relationship
Relationships can be a beautiful union if each party applies themselves and wants to make things work. Not every relationship is perfect nor is it always easy. There may come times where compromise is very needed, whether it is deciding on something small like where to eat or a much bigger matter. No one should feel taken advantage of, exhausted, or resentful towards their spouse throughout the relationship. There are many reasons why couples get tired of each other, cut off communication, act spiteful towards one another, and other acts of discontentment. Below are a few tips and advice when it comes to having a healthy relationship.
By Paisley Hansen7 years ago in Humans
If You're Thinking About Snooping Through Your Bae's Phone
Snooping through your significant other's phone is just another one of those encounters that reveals more to you about yourself than about the other person. When you feel the need to snoop through your significant other's phone, it's telling you that your relationship is revealing an insecurity of yours. For most people, the insecurity is fear: fear of being left alone, fear of lack of control, fear of inadequacy. The funny thing about fear is that the only person who can best address it is the person feeling it.
By Alexis Wyatt7 years ago in Humans
Trust Is a Fragile Thing
Trust is a fragile thing. There's no denying that. Think of a mirror carelessly dropped, depending on the frame to protect the glass. The owner thought they could defeat the inevitable until they flipped it over to reveal the spiderweb effect. They blow away the scattered shards. Still able to see their reflection, they ignore the damage, at least for now.
By Ambi Ambition7 years ago in Humans
"It's Just a Phase"
We like to believe we know what's best for those we love. Whether it's a child, loved one, or friend, we want to ensure that they live their best life. We believe that we understand people on some innate level; how they feel, what they think, and what they have experienced. This is especially true of our kids. But, it's impossible to understand another human being completely. After all, that is what makes us human; we are ever changing and our perceptions change every second that we are alive. This change is a gradual process. It starts with that feeling that sits deep within your chest, that poking in the back of your mind. That is what tells you, while you might not know what the change is, that you are changing and growing into the person you are meant to be.
By Simcha Glassman7 years ago in Humans
5 Ways to Add an Extra Spark in Your Relationship
A happy, married life is what anyone of us would want. But, with time, it becomes difficult to keep the spark in the relationship alive. The romance that used to be there disappears, and you can't remember the last time you had a moment with your partner. There are many ways to keep the spark alive in relationships with your partner, and we will discuss some of them in this article.
By Mia Morales7 years ago in Humans
Stop... In the Name of Love!
More and more I have come to the realization that a lot of us need to seek help. And I'm in no way saying folks are just crazy and need to be admitted. A lot of us need to admit that our insecurities, past hurts, bitterness, and resentments cause unhealthy relationships going forward. Too stubborn to acknowledge why James' infidelity was due to how you treated him as a man. Too hurt over Cheryl stepping out on you. Yes, he/she was wrong for cheating on you, but you chased him/her into the arms of someone who wanted a good man/woman. Your insecurities, badgering, and nagging, endless social media posts instructing someone how you should be loved, just didn't keep him/her wanting to hurry home to you. If they've got one good friend who brags about their fantastic relationship and how things go well between them, then eventually their hearts will swell for that kind of love.
By Mina Valentine7 years ago in Humans
