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Dating, married, single, divorced, and more. Advice on the relationships you have in life. Dear, Humans..

Lost
Sometimes in life, we see what we want and we have all the right intentions to get there. Sometimes in life the right intentions put you in a completely different place than you expected.
By Rose Laniakea8 years ago in Humans
Dealing With a Man’s Increasing Silence in a Relationship
You might have been there. The fire has died out, you and your bae no longer have endless things to talk about, and silence went from a complete stranger to a permanent resident in your time together. You notice his increasing tendency to resort to silence and it kind of saddens you.
By Judy Mae8 years ago in Humans
Best Polyamorous Relationship Tips to Make It Work
Polyamory is not easy. If you think having a single boyfriend or girlfriend is hard, imagine how difficult it is to juggle two at the same time. Speaking as someone who was in a polyamorous relationship with five different people, I'll be the first to say it's not for everyone.
By Ossiana Tepfenhart8 years ago in Humans
What Love Is like After an Emotionally Abusive Relationship
Emotional abuse is never something you think that you'll be a victim of. You think that you will "know the signs" and "never will deal with that" until you are in a romantic relationship with someone who is. You don't take those red flags as bad; he's just "caring" and "protective of his own." He's not. It's abuse that affects you mentally and physically. Unfortunately, this is extremely common, and when you are in it, you don't realize what is going on.
By Madison Zygadlo8 years ago in Humans
Are You Abusing Him?
Alright, ladies, it’s time to be perfectly honest…. We aren’t exactly perceived the same way as our male s/o’s in relationships and we know that. After all, we tend to be able to get away with a heck of a lot more than them in some instances. And sometimes those things we can get away with is a lot worse than you think. If you read the title of my article, which you must have if you clicked on it, you know exactly what I’m talking about.
By Lulu Rose8 years ago in Humans
What Moving in With My Boyfriend at 19 Has Taught Me
There’s a lot of stigma that goes around when it comes to relationships these days, about how they should progress, when to appropriately call your relationship “serious,” and when to make big decisions with the person you love. But that’s all a bunch of BS. Here are some of the things I’ve learned since I moved in with my boyfriend at 19-years-old.
By Grace Grenier8 years ago in Humans
How to Be an Introvert
I've been an extrovert for a long time. A really long time. In a world where whispers are yells and opinions are loudly-held, it's hard to think without feeling intruded upon by other people's talk, and impossible to speak quietly and still be heard—so I've adjusted by speaking every single thought that I have and doing it all quite loudly. Naturally, so has everyone else, which leaves us all with a cacophony of mindless words being repeated over and over and over till our eardrums are desensitized and our neurons no longer know of any other path to take.
By Amera Hassan8 years ago in Humans
Is He Falling for You?
People say that men don't have feelings, that is wrong and total bullshit. They have feelings and they usually fall for a woman before the woman falls. They think they can shove the feelings aside, or they are too oblivious to them to even notice what the hell is going on before it's too late.
By Grace8 years ago in Humans
Player 2 Enter!
What do we look for in the "perfect partner"? What do we search for? What defines the perfect relationship? All questions that orbit around the dating game. A game none of us are really great at playing. I've beaten plenty of games but the dating game always seems to be the hardest. We're all searching for our player 2.
By Katelynn Marie 8 years ago in Humans
How to Spot a Tourist
Dating tourist is not easy, so after hitting my head on the wall several times, I now master the art of detecting one. The worst is my actual paradoxical realization: dating a tourist is dreadful but they are the best! While dating a tourist sucks due to long distance, dating New Yorkers is nearly impossible!
By Lil Gui8 years ago in Humans
The Key to a Successful Polyamorous Relationship
Being in a non-monogamous relationship can be more challenging than one with just two people, especially at first as the dynamics are totally different. Although super exciting and a great experience, here are some tips for people who are new (or old!) to the world of non-monogamy.
By Ayshen Irfan8 years ago in Humans
Knowing Your Worth
Dealing with relationships can be difficult but as humans, we all share the same desire for happiness. A confirmation of this desire for happiness should be an immediate indicator when it comes to knowing when a relationship is good or bad for you. Meaning, if you are dating someone who makes you unhappy, then you should likely not date them. Alternatively, if someone does make you happy, then that is a good omen for your relationship. However, humans are complicated creatures, and it's never that simple.The most important thing to keep in mind when evaluating your relationship is that you come first. You cannot realistically have a healthy relationship with someone if you are not putting your own self first. So what does that even mean? It means you need to regularly stop and think about how you feel and why you feel that way. Translate your feelings into thoughts and then deal with them accordingly. If you do not give yourself the time to process these emotions in a thorough manner you are simply bottling them, and when you bottle your emotions you are trapping yourself.
By Eric B8 years ago in Humans