divorce
Divorce isn't an end; it's a different beginning.
8 Lessons Learned From My Divorce Will Help You Have a Split Without Fights!
I say for sure that I wouldn't be so happy today if I hadn't gone through a divorce in 2019 when my ex-husband gave me the precious information -"I don't love you anymore, beauty. Let's divorce." I'm not saying that my divorce was delightful, but after a year and a few months, I feel happier than before. I understand that it doesn't happen in the same way for everyone, and many people take longer to recover from the shock divorce can bring. I know how hard it is to hold that tear or that dry lump in the throat. Divorced people want only a hug and two open ears to hear all the marriage stories they have to tell. Divorced in suffering want only five or six hours o your day for you to hear all the whining of divorce and the additional traumas of being kicked in the ass. Is it too much to ask a friend for some hours, maybe days, talking the same thing over and over?
By Fred Costa 5 years ago in Humans
It was always her
Seeing the person you love the most, left in a blink of an eye to be with someone who he never stopped loving. You’re head is spinning; you start to break down and wonder, where did it go wrong? Looking back at all the wonderful times you both shared together, was it even real? How can you compete with his first love? You try your best to fight for your family but in the end you move on forward.
By brenda sierra5 years ago in Humans
My Love is Lost in San Francisco
The first time I ever danced with my husband was at his mother’s wedding nearly twenty years ago. I think it was number six out of eight, and that in itself should have been a red flag except that her faith and optimism made it almost admirable. I was so terribly blind that I could only see him and feel the magnetic pull of gravity that lingered between us. Little did I know that the gravitational pull was the same as that of the Death Star in all of the Star Wars movies. . . the large space station command center for the forces of evil and destruction that locks on its targets and pulls them to their death.
By NARC Troopers With Prajinta Pesqueda5 years ago in Humans
The News. Story #2
It all started when I was spending a few days with my in laws and sister in laws family. It was a good week spending with them and getting out of all the congestion and craziness of being in the city. My husband at the time was out of town working and had been gone for a few weeks already, we had recently talked about trying to work on our marriage and I admitted to him that I know I had been putting all my focus and energy on to our baby.
By Life of a Gemini 5 years ago in Humans
3x's Divorce
Shelley has been through many hardships in her life but divorce has to be one of the hardest things that she has ever dealt with. Now we all know what divorce means but according to the dictionary it means to separate or disassociate someone or something.
By Reese Brown5 years ago in Humans
Mental Health After Divorce: How to Successfully Cope With Stress
Truth be told, deciding to get a divorce is never an easy task. There are so many things you must take into consideration, but you know what? It sometimes is an essential step towards your prosperity and happiness. Here are five useful tips on how to successfully cope with stress after divorce. Check them out and do what’s best for you today!
By Mike Parsons5 years ago in Humans
Divorce Filings Skyrocket during The Holidays.
As a divorce mediator I have noticed a troubling, sad fact: more people file for divorce during the holidays or right after. There is something about the atmosphere of family and tradition that seems to bring everything to a boiling point; Thanksgiving and Christmas in particular emphasize family and togetherness. For a spouse in the throes of an affair, separation from their affair partner during this time leaves a large and agonizing emptiness. They come to the inevitable reality that they can no longer put off divorce and that being with their “soulmate” must become their number one focus. Thus, its off to the attorney to draw up divorce papers and hand them to the unsuspecting spouse during what is supposed to be the happiest time of the year.
By Paula Myers Waterman5 years ago in Humans
Bomb Drop Pt 2
In the months before bomb drop, when he was going to “therapy” and sitting on the sofa staring off into space, I would gently, tentatively, ask him, “hey what’s going on?” to which he would bark, “Leave me alone! I don’t have to tell anyone what is going on! I deserve to have peace, and be left alone in my own home!” As a consummate people pleaser, I would duck my head, retreat in fear, and meekly slink away to wonder exactly what was going on.
By Paula Myers Waterman5 years ago in Humans
Bomb Drop Pt 1.
10:00 pm 2009 Halloween Night- my husband decides to “walk the dog.” Now mind you, my husband never walked the dog, EVER, so I knew that something was fishy. Granted, things had been fishy for a long time, but I couldn’t ignore this or talk myself out of it. This day had been a long day coming.. three years to be exact. Right after he became a captain at the airline he worked for as well as becoming CO of his Marine C-130 squadron, he began to distance himself from me and the children, becoming colder and more contemptuous.
By Paula Myers Waterman5 years ago in Humans
