gender roles
A look at the evolution of gender roles, from Leave It to Beaver, paternity leave, female breadwinners and more.
The Goddess Myth
My nine-year-old thinks I walk on water. In her eyes, I am the epitome of the perfect mother. In contrast, my 16- and 18-year-old each cannot wait to escape what they often perceive to be my totalitarian regime. Balancing out such sharply contrasting views, my 24-year-old admits that, while there have been times that my mothering techniques might be questionable, at best, he can no longer deny that he didn’t make things any easier for either one of us. Today, as an adult who can reflect on the past with less biased views, my first-born child thinks I am a “good enough” mother. Personally, there are days when I have to strongly question my own methods, just as there are days – well, fleeting moments, anyway – where I think I should win the “Best Mom Ever” award. When measured against societal standards for mothers, though, I fall short. Some might even consider me a bad mother. I used to care what the outside world thought of me, and I tried, in vain, to adjust myself to better meet societal expectations. When I did, one of two things would happen: either I would continue to fall short in some (insignificant, in my mind) way, or, more often, I’d finally meet those ridiculous expectations, and then society would change them! Eventually, I had to do some real soul searching, and I had to honestly ask myself whether I was truly “good enough” to be a mother to my children. To this day, I still have moments when I am left questioning my own adequacy at mothering. Often, the only thing I can do is throw my hands up and say, “good enough.” Heck, we may as well just face it, perfection will always remain just out of reach. We mothers must stop reaching for something that we will never be able to grasp; that we were never meant to grasp. In the race to become the mythical perfect mother, we place ourselves in an unfair and burdensome position, where in the end, we are sure to be judged as failures – whether by those around us, or even worse, by ourselves. It is time that mothers unite against unrealistic parenting expectations and say, “No, thanks. I’ll settle for good enough.”
By Melissa Shortt3 years ago in Viva
Man Attacked Hilda Baci For Wearing Bikini; Claims Guinness Book Should Remove Her For Bathing Suit
Wednesday, 7 June 2023 By: TB Obwoge I was posting the morning news links for Nigeria, when scrolling Facebook I saw this man's post. I thought he was initially joking, as he claimed the chef and newest Guinness Book of World Records holder was naked. In the photos you can clearly see she's not nude in any of the photos.
By IwriteMywrongs3 years ago in Viva
THINGS YOU SHOULD NEVER SHARE WITH YOUR PARTNER NO MATTER WHAT
things one should never share with their partner no matter what Establishing healthy boundaries is a crucial aspect of any relationship. While open communication and trust are vital, there are certain topics that individuals may choose to keep private from their partners. This essay aims to explore the concept of boundaries in relationships and delve into specific areas where discretion may be necessary. However, it is essential to note that these guidelines are not absolute and depend on the unique dynamics of each relationship.
By Bridget Dyke3 years ago in Viva
THINGS THAT ATTRACT WOMEN TO MEN
Things That Attract Women To Men Attraction is a complex and multifaceted phenomenon that can vary greatly from person to person. While it's important to note that individual preferences and priorities differ, there are certain qualities and traits that are commonly associated with attracting women. Here are some of the factors that often contribute to attraction:
By Bridget Dyke3 years ago in Viva
Why Can't Americans Agree on, Well, Nearly Anything? Philosophy Has Some Answers
Why Can't Americans Agree on, Well, Nearly Anything? Philosophy Has Some Answers In today's polarized and divided political landscape, it seems that Americans struggle to find common ground on almost any issue. Whether it's healthcare, gun control, climate change, or immigration, discussions quickly devolve into heated arguments and entrenched positions. The question arises: why is it so difficult for Americans to agree on anything? Interestingly, philosophy, with its rich tradition of grappling with complex questions of human nature and society, offers some insights into this phenomenon.
By News Bucks3 years ago in Viva
Ghana 'so-called' News Outlet Sexualizes Broadcaster Ghanians Came to Speak-Up Remove Post!
Monday, 21 May 2023 By; TB Obwoge In Ghana there has been so many news reports about the defilement (rape) of children. Women have given up trying to report their cases of rape in Ghana, which shows you how lawless they are when it comes to violence against women, girls and rape.
By IwriteMywrongs3 years ago in Viva
Women & Girls Under Attack in Ghana: Myself & Another Black American Reported Sexual Assault & Domestic Violence
Friday, 19 May 2023 By: TB Obwoge I've written about going to the police for help in filing a report when one John Henaku stole my identity. He tried to create an account with me, I thought he was helping me, he however created the account with his email and password.
By IwriteMywrongs3 years ago in Viva
Pregnancy, Birth And Beyond
Pregnancy, childbirth, and the postpartum period are transformative and awe-inspiring journeys that bring joy, challenges, and significant changes to a woman's life. Maternal health during this time is of utmost importance, as it directly impacts both the mother and the baby. In this comprehensive guide, we will delve into the various aspects of pregnancy, childbirth, and the postpartum period, providing essential information and insights to support maternal health and well-being.
By OJO OREOFE3 years ago in Viva
Unlock Your Full Potential: Discover the Surprising Truths About Success and Change Your Life Forever!
The idea of living a simple life is often scoffed at in a world that seems to value complexity and achievement above all else. However, renowned psychologist and entrepreneur, Flávio Augusto da Silva, has a different perspective.
By igor silva3 years ago in Viva
Golden Gate Bridge
The Golden Gate Bridge is one of the most iconic landmarks in the United States, and is considered by many to be one of the engineering wonders of the world. Spanning the Golden Gate Strait, the bridge connects the city of San Francisco to Marin County, and has become an internationally recognized symbol of the San Francisco Bay Area.
By Nouman Yousaf3 years ago in Viva
