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Let’s Talk Nudes
I'm 44, which seems old in your world. I get it. But, I am also a mother of 4 kids—3 gorgeous girls ages 19, 16 and 14, and one handsome fella who is 9. What does that matter? Well, it means I am highly qualified to talk on this subject. I have been schooled by my girls, been part of countless conversations around the topic, and seen all the bad stuff that comes from it. Now that you know I know what I'm talking about, let's have a very frank discussion about nudes, shall we?
By Amy Neuman Proffitt7 years ago in Filthy
What Is Masturbation?
Masturbation is the act of self-stimulating the genitals for pleasure. In most cases, it usually is continued to the point of orgasm or until the person feels satisfied. It's a natural way to help someone relax, reduce overall feelings of stress, and explore their sexuality.
By Teela Hudak7 years ago in Filthy
Should You Play Hard to Get?
Some people think that it's necessary to play hard to get. But what does that actually mean? When we are talking about dating and relationships, this usually refers to putting up some resistance to the attention given by another person. The attention may be their pursuit of a relationship or simply their interest in a casual sexual encounter. Either way, it's seen as someone offering up a fight but secretly wanting to give in to the desire and attention of the other person. The belief is that the person wants to be pursued. Sometimes this is also called token resistance because the resistance that they offer isn't really meant. So if they are going to consent, why do people play hard to get in the first place?
By Teela Hudak7 years ago in Filthy
Are You Teaching Your Kids to Be Embarrassed by Sex
Do you feel uncomfortable or embarrassed talking about sex? If you do, you're not alone. Many people find the topic uncomfortable to talk about, even when they aren't trying to talk to their kids about it. But how you treat the subject of sex is teaching your kids how they should act about it, too. It's not just about what you say to them. How you say it sends a much stronger message to your kids then what you say.
By Teela Hudak7 years ago in Filthy
A Natural Need and Want for Sex
Men want sex. Some women want it just as much. It all comes down to satisfying your partner beyond physical and mental stimulation. Men desire a woman who can fulfill the basic needs of a relationship and fulfill other needs in the bedroom. If sex suffers, then the relationship suffers. I know you are thinking: Why should it suffer if I’m being a good partner?
By Scarlett Price7 years ago in Filthy
What Is the Male G-Spot?
"Is there a male g-spot?" or "What is the g-spot?" are often questions whispered in low voices. Some people think that the g-spot doesn't exist or only exists for people of certain genders. But let's get the facts straight. It doesn't matter what gender you are, everyone has a G-Spot.
By Teela Hudak7 years ago in Filthy
Should You Send Nudes?
"Send me nudes ;-)" At one point or another, every woman has received one of these messages. Sometimes they're polite, sometimes they're explicit. They come sometimes out of the blue and sometimes from people we know well. Regardless when, where, how, or from who we get them, the decision remains as what to do about it.
By Teela Hudak7 years ago in Filthy
Porn
Ah, to watch or not to watch. That is the question. My two cents, watch the damn thing! Porn doesn’t have to be a naughty four-letter word that’s scary! Believe it or not, watching porn as a couple together, could actually help your sex life! Yep! I said it!
By Friday Night Confessions7 years ago in Filthy
What Is Consent
Sexual consent is a huge and important topic. In the last year, we have talked more about consent than we ever have on a societal level. Thanks to the explosion of the #MeToo Movement, we are thinking much more critically about consent and how it should be applied in different situations. We are no longer remaining silent on violations of that consent. A lot of people think that they understand what consent is but this doesn't really mean they shouldn't learn more about it. A number of studies have confirmed that despite having a basic understanding of consent, most people still agree with consent violations when presented in specific scenarios despite stating that they are not okay.
By Teela Hudak7 years ago in Filthy
Why Do Kids Need to Learn About Sex?
Why do kids need to learn about sex? It's a really common thought to shield children from sexual content. In many places, there are adult content warnings on shows, movies, books, and other forms of entertainment and education. Many people bend the truth about facts of life that are related to sex, such as pregnancy and childbirth. The idea of even mentioning the idea of sex for pleasure around children is still highly taboo in many circles. Society overall seems less concerned with children witnessing violence than sexuality. How did it come to be this way? Why do we have such a strange relationship with something so natural?
By Teela Hudak7 years ago in Filthy
First Time Oral
Staring into the eye of your man’s BFF boy toy can be intimidating! What do I do? How do I even begin? He’s not even hard yet what do I do next? Rest assured you are not alone! I think everyone was scared the first time! To help you out before the big night, here are some tips you need to know to make it memorable for both of you! And in a good way!
By Friday Night Confessions7 years ago in Filthy
