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Male Sex Education and Porn
Now guys, this is getting serious: the amount of men that are mimicking sex the way it's done in pornography is astounding. And I feel it's not being talked about enough. OK, there is nothing wrong with having porn sex, it's just not all that interesting for most women. For the average woman, it highly resembles (if that) the feeling of masturbating. Because that's what porn is made for - masturbation. I know that it can sometimes be fun to do it as they do it in porn, but it can become extremely repetitive regardless to say that sex is so much more than humping, fingering, gagging, licking or sucking. More than you could ever imagine. And no, I'm not talking about necessarily getting emotionally involved - although that is the way to having the time of your life - but just going with the flow, feeling what she wants, asking for what you want, relaxing, making time and space for experiments, for exploration, knowing how and what and where. Whether it be soft or hard, slow or fast, sex is meant to be fulfilling, not just a means of relief. Don't most men want to be just a little bit happier in general when they leave their lover's side? Wouldn't most men want to be their best at satisfying a woman? And no, I'm not talking to you, you egocentric narcissist, who's only goal is to 'cum and go'.
By Clear-Eyed Rebel6 years ago in Filthy
How to *Not* Be a Dick at the Strip Club. Top Story - December 2019.
Listen, gentlemen, it's called a 'Gentlemen's Club', which means that one must behave as such. Though it is part of the entertainer's job to create a sexy and fun experience for the patrons that walk through the door that does not then mean that regular polite behaviors are negated. Sometimes it's because it's fun to play king for a night or sometimes it's inexperience but the behavior sometimes goes really badly really quickly. Here is what not to do at the strip club, guys:
By Ashley Lunt6 years ago in Filthy
Sexual Desires
As humans, we all have something that we desire from sex or within sex. It's either a feeling or a rush. It may be a mental or emotional desire that we seek from the acts of sex. I wanted to share with you all some of my sex stories and moments as well as what I desire.
By Friday Vibes6 years ago in Filthy
5 Common Misconceptions About Masturbation
Misconceptions about masturbation exist because it’s portrayed as something that people should be ashamed of. For a long time, it was presented as a mental problem and a perversion. That’s why, even if they hear or read something, people won’t discuss it with anyone and will take those “facts” as true. This mostly happens to younger people who don’t have enough experience to see through someone’s lies, so they stay uneducated on this matter. Not only that it isn’t a mental problem and a perversion, but it’s healthy and acceptable, as almost everyone does it. In this article, you can read about common misconceptions about masturbation and why they’re so wrong.
By Isla Wright6 years ago in Filthy
5 Sex Tips for Men Who Want to Be Good Lovers
There’s so much more to your everyday sex than most guys have ever thought about. A lot of people find sex just a means to satisfy their needs and don’t really pay attention to their partner’s wishes, no matter if it’s a one-night stand or usual sexy time with their loved one. Some people don’t even care about their performance as long as they enjoy intercourse. However, other people probably wonder about how they should approach sex in a different manner and how to get better at it. If you’re one of them, you’ve stumbled upon the right page. Here you can find some tips you should try implementing into your sex life and see for yourself that they do wonders.
By Isla Wright6 years ago in Filthy
Play Buddies and FWB
I really want to continue doing posts on how to do certain dynamics or teach you about certain dynamics. This one will be really simple and might be enlightening to some of you. So let's jump in, shall we? If you don't know what play buddies are, it's just what it sounds like. It's when two adults decide to do sexual stuff to each other but maybe not go all the way. If they go all the way, it may evolve to friends with benefits (FWB) possibly. Friends with benefits is where two friends (again adults) decide to maintain a friendship but fuck and maybe play on occasion. There's different variations of this, but this is the main dynamic of this variety.
By Lena Bailey6 years ago in Filthy
7 Things to Do Before a Hookup You Need to Know
Knowing that you are on the verge of a great hook up experience is a great feeling. When you actually do it, it ends up being exciting, thrilling, embarrassing and even weird sometimes, which just makes it more memorable and enjoyable. For some people, it might be a life changing event and for others it ends up being a memory to cherish for the rest of their lives. There are innumerable ways in which you can be affected by a casual hook up experience. However, if you go about it without exercising caution and common sense, you might end up with the exact opposite. Such a situation will end up leading to an experience that you will not only regret but even one that might put you in a lot of danger.
By Alice Naraa6 years ago in Filthy
Little and Middle Aesthetic
Baby girls are submissives in the realm of DDlg (daddy Dom/ little girl) or age play. There are also a group of subs called baby boys. Littles (baby boys and girls) come in all ages. There is also a group called middles who are like littles but they identify as teens instead of like 12 or younger. Some people just like age play but don't consider themselves submissives.
By Lena Bailey6 years ago in Filthy
What Are the Best Masturbation Tips and Masturbation Techniques?
Discover some of the best female masturbation tips for males, and masturbation techniques for females. But first, here are some questions about your practice that could give you some ideas about masturbation.
By Narinder singh7 years ago in Filthy
