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10 Mistakes You Should Never Make When Giving a Blowjob
Going down on someone, or someone going down on you, can be one of the most pleasurable and intimate of sexual acts... that is, if you do it right. In these days, with such a big stigma around talking about sex, it's pretty common to not communicate enough with your sexual partner about what feels good. It can be an extremely awkward and bad experience, when it really shouldn't be. So here are a few dos and don'ts to ensure an amazing time.
By Kiara King7 years ago in Filthy
Fantasies
Do you seriously want to try something new? Or is it just a fantasy? Today we are going to debunk myths surrounding common (and not so common) fantasies. I’m not really going to talk about “vanilla” fantasies (i.e. sex with a hot man/woman whilst the sun is setting), although these are great too, if that’s what you’re into.
By Kink Journals7 years ago in Filthy
The Guide to Being an Adult Virgin
Hello! I'm assuming that you are reading this because A, you are a virgin or B, you are just nosy. I'm just kidding by the way, but regardless of what circumstances brought you here, I want to share some insight about being a virgin, especially when you are older.
By Z D7 years ago in Filthy
The Internet Has Ruined Sex for Everybody, and Here’s Why
Let’s begin with the basic understanding that most men are like five-year-olds with shiny, red fire trucks. They want girls to play with those fire trucks, but they’re constantly worried that girls have played with bigger, better, shinier fire trucks. This makes those five-year-olds indignant.
By Aaron Dennis7 years ago in Filthy
Swinging
Brought over from my old blog. I suppose you have all been wondering when I was going to write about swinging. I wanted to wait a little as this blog isn’t just about swinging, its about discovering yourself and exploring. Today though, I have decided it’s time to give you a proper insight into the swinging lifestyle.
By Kink Journals7 years ago in Filthy
Spice Up Your Love Life
At some point in every relationship we go through a dry patch, a part in our relationship where we feel like sex is lacking, no longer what it used to be or in straightforward terms, boring.
By Author Billiejo Priestley7 years ago in Filthy
Let's Talk About Sex Baby...
… Let's talk about you and me. Sorry, couldn’t help myself. So the latest news is that here in the UK, the supermarket Sainsbury’s are launching a range of vibrators. They are starting with a range of three, and depending on the demand they will be looking to increase their range.
By Kink Journals7 years ago in Filthy
Sexual Frustration in a Hook-Up Culture
As the saying goes, "variety is the spice of life," whilst that may be absolutely accurate when I am cooking my famous spaghetti Bolognese that has sprinkles of USA flavours in the form of oregano spice, or a taste of southern Spain, with a generous dash of paprika powder, that is not always a good thing when it comes to sex. Is that the collective mental gasps of naysayers echoing in these internet streets? Before we agree to disagree, read on...
By S A Miller7 years ago in Filthy
The Difference Between BDSM and Abuse
Let's talk about the biggest difference between BDSM and abuse. BDSM is often confused with abuse all the time, by people who do not truly understand what BDSM actually is.
By Author Billiejo Priestley7 years ago in Filthy
Sex Toys, Masturbation, and Him
When it comes to sex alone, sex toys most often are the only answer. Most single women these days own some sort of sex toys.
By Author Billiejo Priestley7 years ago in Filthy
A 7-Step Beginner's Guide to Visiting Swingers Club
Here’s some simple advice to make your trip more enjoyable and comfortable. 1. Look for the rules. All clubs will have different rules. These are in place to protect you and the other patrons. They may differ from club to club, and some can even differ depending on the night or the event. Make sure you read through these and understand them before you go inside.
By Daisy Rowley7 years ago in Filthy
The Dos and Don'ts of Sex with Your Ex
If your reading this, you're probably doing so because you're looking for a place to register the current shame you're feeling if you've just fucked your ex, or at least thought about it.
By xx x7 years ago in Filthy