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Human Nature
Why hide it? It is human nature for the eyes to wander and the mind to dream. When we are single we check every one out, we have fun and we experiment. We go through what people call the college years. Even when we are in relationships we do the same, let’s not kid ourselves. Being married, people think that it puts an end to any kind of heart racing excitement and experimenting, but it doesn’t have to.
By Maya Juarez-Peña7 years ago in Filthy
10 Reasons Why Guys Are Not Having More Sex
Guys, if you’ve ever wondered why you’re not getting laid more, you’ve probably already blamed it on all those “stuck-up biatches” out there.
By Reid Moore7 years ago in Filthy
The Foxy Five (Must Read)
Do you want to seduce your crush? Do you want people to fantasize about sleeping with you? If you nodded your head, keep reading.
By Ace Hessy7 years ago in Filthy
Sex Positions for Every Room in Your House
Let’s face it, having sex in the bedroom all the time can become too routine. Add some pizzazz to your love making by changing up the scenery along with the perfect sex positions for every room in your house. Each room has its own unique vibe to inspire you to new heights.
By Lizzie Boudoir8 years ago in Filthy
Tips to Achieve Your Ultimate O
What is something that humans and animals have in common? That would be sex. The difference between us and most animals is that we actually can enjoy this act recreationally instead of using it just as a tool to procreate. With something that feels so incredibly amazing for both men and women, there seems to be an imbalance. I recently read that up to 80 percent of women fake it in bed. While this is an enormous percentage, it didn't really surprise me.
By Ashlyn Harper8 years ago in Filthy
Does Size Matter?
Does size matter? It’s a question that I am asked more often by straight guys than anything else. After they ask, they always want to show off what they’re packing, either via picture or in real life. If they are told that they don’t have the biggest one around, they freak out and ask how they compensate for their shortcomings. The answer is as simple as it is complex for them; most of the time the girls that they are dating will confide that the advice given fell on deaf ears.
By Edward Anderson8 years ago in Filthy
My First Time Trying Anal
Okay so here I go... my first time trying anal was two years ago with my boyfriend of four years. It was something he wanted to try especially during that time of the month, but I was always hesitant to (DUHH!). One time we finally agreed to try and, well, it wasn't as bad as I expected it to be. I'll tell you a bit about how my experience went and then go over some do's and don'ts.
By G M8 years ago in Filthy
Eat It Like You Mean It
Make it sexy. Make it exhilarating. Make it nasty. If you’re familiar with my recent writing on how to perform the best blowjob, you understand the emphasis I place on nastiness. It doesn’t mean you have to engage in anything you’re uncomfortable with; remain true to your sexual interests. However, showing your partner the lengths you’re willing to go to please them can be extremely arousing. It’s intimate and can intensify the experience for the both of you. In regards to eating pussy, it can be a downright game changer.
By Micky Thinks8 years ago in Filthy
Tips on Giving the Best Blowjob. Top Story - July 2018.
I don’t like receiving oral sex. I derive no pleasure from it. I’ve had a number of enthusiastic individuals volunteer to change my attitude but I politely turned them down. I’m content with my preference because I know my body. I know what I like.
By Micky Thinks8 years ago in Filthy
Things You Should Know About Sex After Pregnancy
Well, I have recently returned to work after giving birth to my third baby, I wrote an article sex and pregnancy a while back, before I gave birth about having sex during pregnancy. I thought I would do a follow up on sex 'after' having a baby. Now I know some of you boys out there might want to switch off, put your fingers in your ears and sing "la la la" really loudly! Some of you girls may even want to switch off now! It isn't something that gets talked about often. I can honestly say in all the baby groups and library sing-song sessions I attended over the last ten months, not one lady has come up to me and said
By Rick Vermunt8 years ago in Filthy
Body Language
Hello people. Do you know how to read body language? Like really know? When having sex, understanding body language is key... If you want to be any good at it, that is. I’m not a medical professional. The only thing I’m kind of professional at is cooking. But, I do consider myself to know how to please a woman, and how to make it so she knows how to please me.
By Fisher King8 years ago in Filthy
What to Do When Your Partner Suddenly Can’t Get It Up
If you’re having regular sex you’ll know only too well that it doesn’t always go to plan. Accidental injuries, furniture malfunctions, broken condoms and unexpected guests…everyone will have a story of sexual mishap. When sex hits a road-block it can break the flow and sometimes it’s difficult to get back on track. When a guy loses his erection it can create an awkward situation where neither partner is quite sure of how to proceed. He may become frustrated or embarrassed, whilst you wonder if this is down to you or if there’s anything you can do to help. There can be many reasons why someone might have difficulty staying hard, ranging from medication side-effects and alcohol use to issues related to performance anxiety and body-image. Regardless of the cause, a one-off difficulty can start to turn into a regular problem. Both partners come to expect that there will be issues with sex, making it hard to relax and go with the moment. Sex therapists suggest that the way a partner responds when this happens can make a huge impact on whether this becomes an on-going problem and the quality of your sex life going forward.
By Dr. Alexandra Richards8 years ago in Filthy