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Weirdest Sex Positions Everyone Should Try At Least Once
Most people tend to have a handful of sex positions that they stick to when they're looking for a roll in the hay. It's just human nature to want "tried and true" positions like Doggy Style, Missionary, and (for foreplay) 69. Everyone's done them, and we all know they're pretty decent.
By Ossiana Tepfenhart8 years ago in Filthy
Best Sex Positions for Curvy Women
Almost everyone can enjoy sex, no matter your height or weight. What makes intercourse a steamier experience is figuring out which positions are best for you and your partner. Whether it’s doggy or cowgirl, everyone sticks to certain positions that they can get off to — even if it’s constantly one specific position, hey, it’s working for the two of you.
By Lizzie Boudoir8 years ago in Filthy
Best Female Masturbation Techniques
As Cyndi Lauper once said, "Girls just wanna have fun." And while it is fun to have a playmate, it's also fun to do our own thing. No offense, guys or girls—sometimes it's nice to shut the curtains (or not), lie back (or not), and indulge in oneself. There are two types of women in this world: those who masturbate and those who lie. We all do it. Go on, admit it! Nobody’s going to point the finger at you (not before they’ve washed it, anyway).
By Ailish Delaney8 years ago in Filthy
Loud Sex is the Best Sex
When my husband and I lived in our first apartment, I was forever in fear of disturbing the neighbors when we had sex. Our walls were incredibly thin, and we often heard conversations and TV's as we walked the halls of our complex, so I assumed people could hear us have sex. While we lived there sex became kind of "blah", which is a cardinal sin in our marriage, so we would often go have sex in our car to spice things up and make as much noise as we wanted. Being loud just makes it more exciting somehow! Now I'm not saying gurgle and scream like a porn actor, but I would suggest just letting loose a little bit and allowing yourself to really express what you feel. My husband LOVES it when I am loud. It is one of the things that 'gets him there'.
By Kathryn C. 8 years ago in Filthy
What Are the Best Excuses To Avoid Having Sex?
Having sex is one of the best things to show love and affection to your partner. Sex comes with so many great benefits like gaining pure pleasure and satisfaction. Sex… is sometimes something that we don’t want at the moment. Yes, many of us can agree that sex is amazing, but there are times when we just want to sleep that night. There are even times when there isn't a specific reason for not wanting to put out tonight—we just don't want to have sex tonight, even if it's casual sex.
By Lilliana Backman8 years ago in Filthy
Car Sex: The Where's and How's. Top Story - February 2018.
If you and your partner have gotten a little bored in the bedroom, but don't really want to break out the fuzzy handcuffs and paddle, I have a solution for you! Car sex. I know what you're thinking: I am a grown man/woman. I have a perfectly good bedroom, with a door that locks, and plenty of space to move around. Why would I try to get it on in the back seat of my cramped car? I say don't knock it until you try it. Plenty of couples get bored of sex because they sort of fall into a routine with it. Lock the door, get naked, bang one out using the same three positions you like, then go to bed. If that is how you guys want to have a relationship, I think that's great, and honestly, if you have kids as well as a demanding job, sometimes a routine is all you can manage. But if I've said it before I'll say it a million times: try new things with your partner! Doing it in the car can be fun and I guarantee you will feel young again!
By Kathryn C. 8 years ago in Filthy
Shower Sex Is A LIE—Opinion
Younger readers- Go away. 18+ Only. How many of us have seen a really steamy (pun intended) shower sex scene on TV and thought "Oh ya that is totally on my bucket list." Well, the reality is way less "amazing," let me tell you. Now I am not a sex expert, but I have a very nice sex life with my husband. We like to try out new things together all the time and we have tried the shower scene sex more than once because I am a hopeless romantic. I want my husband to pick me up, while water is rushing around us, hold me against the shower wall and... well you know. I highly recommend trying lots of different sex things in your own relationship because it can be really great. Don't be shy to ask what each other's fantasies are. You don't have to agree to anything you don't want to do, but how will you know you don't like something if you never try it? Go ahead. Try out different things…just not in the shower. Here is why:
By Kathryn C. 8 years ago in Filthy
Advice for Being in a Sexless Marriage
Relationships: Truly wonderful things that make you feel adored, wanted, and happy. You find a special someone in your life who just seems to "get you," and then suddenly you find yourself not imagining how you ever were without them. That's how it always starts, isn't it?
By Moon Sugar8 years ago in Filthy
Sex Tips for Men, Women, Amateurs, and Professionals
Sex is something that all of us crave, but it can make a lot of us nervous due to overthinking and worrying. These tips will make you seem like a professional even if you are a first timer. Sit back, get some munchies, and get reading: Tips how to be better at sex.
By Thefunny Realest8 years ago in Filthy
Best Tantric Sex Tips That Anyone Can Try
Tantric sex is one of those experiences that most people have wanted to do at one point or another — but haven't been able to, possibly due to a lack of educational resources or a lack of even knowing where to start. But, the rumors alone will tell you that tantric sex can be a seriously mind-blowing experience.
By Ossiana Tepfenhart8 years ago in Filthy
Maintain Your Mental Health while Submitting to Your Dominant
Submitting to someone is an extremely wonderful process of giving over aspects of your life that you used to control to someone that you trust. In the BDSM lifestyle as a submissive, being “owned” by a Dominant should be an wonderful event that makes you feel like you truly belong, not only in this lifestyle, but with your partner. I wrote an article entitled “I’ve Submitted to Him,” that you can read for more information on what submitting really means.
By Lorah Catherine8 years ago in Filthy
