friendship
C.S Lewis got it right: friendship is born when one person says to another: "What! You too? I thought I was the only one!"
7 Ways to Identify a Phoenix
1. The Ash Bearer A Phoenix carries weight most people cannot — the remnants of old burdens, the expectations of others, the emotions of those around them. Their strength comes from holding what would overwhelm anyone else. They absorb quietly, and it is this endurance that shapes them.
By Gladys Kay Sidorenkoabout a month ago in Humans
When Love Feels Temporary And Emotional Stability Feels Impossible
The modern-day love is rather fragile and seems to fade away anytime. Most relationships start with much enthusiasm and do not last long, and the individuals are left disoriented and emotionally troubled. The ease of creating connections has been enhanced by dating applications, social media, and unremitting interaction, but this has reduced the difficulty of maintaining connections. Humans socialize with one another all the time but they fail to establish emotional connection with each other. There is also emotional insecurity due to the fear of being replaced and it is hard to trust. Romanticists live in hope that they will be able to settle down, yet they are left to match-make on temporary relationships. This endless process of births and deaths makes the heart tired when it is not sure whether love may be real in this fast-moving world.
By Steve Waughabout a month ago in Humans
The Fear Of Commitment Is Destroying Genuine Romantic Connections
The fear to be committed is now one of the greatest problems of the contemporary relations. Most individuals desire intimate emotional attachment, but fail when relationships start getting serious. This fear is conditioned by the previous heartbreak, emotional trauma, social pressure, and the fantasy of unlimited choices generated by modern dating sites.
By Hayley Kiyokoabout a month ago in Humans
Why Modern Dating Creates Emotional Distance Between Hopeful Romantic Hearts
The dating of the modern era offers all sorts of possibilities, instant communication, and immediate emotional links, but lots of individuals are feeling lonely than ever. Through dating applications, social networking, and instant messaging, love is made to look like it is always accessible. Connection is implied by profiles, likes, and messages, yet it is frequently not emotional. The discussions begin but seldom expand into a meaningful one. Individuals communicate all the time but they feel invisible, misjudged, and expendable.
By Hayley Kiyokoabout a month ago in Humans
Living with Spirit
A ferry was standing at the New York seashore, the one that carries people to the Statue of Liberty. However, to board the ferry, one first had to buy a ticket. Since it was the weekend, there was a huge crowd, and the ferry was packed to capacity. People standing in line were waiting for the second and third ferries under the scorching sun, holding Coke, burgers, juice, and movie cameras in their hands.
By Sudais Zakwanabout a month ago in Humans
The Emotional Cost Of Ghosting And Sudden Romantic Disappearances
Ghosting has now been an everyday occurrence in dating, particularly with the emergence of online dating and dating apps. Humans are able to establish emotional attachment within a short period of time only to find the other party vanish without any notice. This is a silent denouement, which makes people puzzled and emotionally disoriented. In the absence of closure, the mind finds it hard to process the wrong that took place. Most conversations are replayed, trying to find the errors and even thinking they are the cause of the disappearance. The emotional blow is even more powerful than a blunt refusal since the not knowing makes one uncertain and desirous of answers but this is not the case.
By Kellee Bernierabout a month ago in Humans
How Casual Dating Culture Is Emotionally Draining Hopeful Romantic Hearts
Freedom, flexibility and excitement have become common in relationships today as casual dating offers a person the opportunity to have a free, flexible and exciting relationship without the emotional commitment. Lots of hopeful romantics get into this culture with an illusion that it provides connectedness with no stress or a heartbreak. Initially, the excitement of encountering new individuals is invigorating and energizing. But, in the long run, the absence of emotional appeal starts to make one feel empty. Relationships that exist on a short-term level hardly offer the safety and knowledge that real bonding entails. Little by little, the heart gets weary of the same lines of introduction, temporary love, and abrupt good-byes that cause some emotional exhaustion and cannot be ignored.
By Stella Johnson Loveabout a month ago in Humans
The Emotional Chaos Of Modern Dating Nobody Honestly Talks About
Contemporary dating is quite fast paced and is something that the human heart was not meant to deal with. Through the dating application, social media and instant messaging, individuals can encounter, bond and vanish in few days. This rapid cycle causes emotional whiplash where one can be excited and then quickly disappointed and confused. People are supposed to live within the rapid emotional shifts with no time of processing their emotions. The repetitive nature of connections as they start and stop consumes emotional resources, which make people feel tired and disconnected. What is started as a hope turns into stress, and dating is not as romantic as it appears to be a survival of emotions.
By Tiana Alexandraabout a month ago in Humans
Why Finding Real Love Feels Harder Than Ever Before
Contemporary dating is exposing people to emotional stimulus more than any previous generation. Dating applications, social networks, and online messengers provide unlimited opportunities to meet new people, as a result, individuals are overwhelmed by the abundance of choice and demands. This overload complicates focusing on an individual since it is always diverted to the possibility of someone superior. Emotional focus is uncommon and individuals are not able to know what they really desire. Most of them are anxious, confused, and emotionally exhausted instead. Love is even more difficult to locate since the heart never gets time to rest, reflect and even develop naturally.
By Tiana Alexandraabout a month ago in Humans
